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7 Morning Habits Of Healthy & Happy People

Shannon Kaiser
March 9, 2015
Shannon Kaiser
By Shannon Kaiser
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Shannon Kaiser is the best-selling author of 5 books on the psychology of happiness and fulfillment including The Self-Love Experiment, Adventures for Your Soul, and Joy Seeker. She has a B.A. in Journalism and Communications from the University of Oregon.
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March 9, 2015

Do you consider yourself a morning person? Studies suggest morning people tend to be happier and even healthier. But you don't have to be morning person to develop simple habits that can help you have a more balanced and productive day.

When I was stuck in a corporate career and diagnosed with clinical depression, I would dread waking up in the morning. It meant going into a job I hated and suffering through another long day. I realized my unhappiness was part of a choice that was manufactured by my routine and daily habits.

So I studied happy and healthy people and learned what they did. As it turns out, a lot of our happiness can be traced to our habits, which start from the moment we wake up.

Today my life is much different from when I was that sad girl who relied on her snooze button. I've developed key morning routines that shifted my entire day, transforming my life.

Waking up can be difficult if you don't have something to look forward to. If you find yourself feeling stuck in life, it could be as simple as shifting and switching up some of your morning routines.

Here are seven habits practiced by the healthiest and happiest people I know.

1. They speak kindly to themselves

Instead of waking up and thinking negative thoughts about how much they ate the night before or how they failed to meet a goal, or how frustrated they are that they aren't where they think they should be in life, they simply celebrate where they are with kind and compassionate thoughts.

2. They listen to their bodies

The happiest and healthiest people I know don't have a strict morning routine, but instead listen to their bodies and let them guide them. Some mornings their bodies may say, "Today, it will feel good to work out early and drink fresh green juice." While other mornings it may say, "Push snooze one more time." Instead of feeling guilty for their choices or thinking their morning has to look a certain way, they trust themselves and let their bodies' needs lead them.

3. They focus on what they want instead of what they don't want.

Happy people focus on what they want by picturing it in their head and taking steps to achieve it. Instead of wasting precious energy on what isn't working or what they don't want, they commit to a better future by imagining what they want.

4. They leave yesterday in the past.

Most people wake up and start to run through a list of the mistakes, mishaps or problems from the day before. This prevents you from fully moving forward into a positive day. Instead, go to bed each night and say to yourself, "For today, I did the best I could and it is enough. Tomorrow, I will do it again." Then when you wake, you will feel more grounded and balanced to start fresh again.

5. They align with their purpose and higher power.

Connected to a higher power daily. Whether it's a solid gratitude practice, prayer, meditation, journal writing or focused intent, they connect by giving thanks and aligning with love. Sometimes a higher power is a sense of community orgroup of people with similar interests.

6. They ask themselves key questions.

Starting your day with focused intent will help you be more productive and feel accomplished. Steve Jobs said, "For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today? And whenever the answer has been no for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something." Being strategic with your day will help you live a more fulfilled life.

7. They do what they want to do, not what they have to do.

Healthy and happy people know the most important thing is how they feel, so naturally they don't do anything that makes them feel uncomfortable, nor do they force anything. If things aren't flowing, they go in a new direction. They allow themselves to be who they are and trust the rhymes of their own life, free of society's pressure and standards. True happiness can only come when we let ourselves do what feels right for us. Trusting yourself is the best way to reach lasting fulfillment.

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Shannon Kaiser

Shannon Kaiser is the best-selling author of 5 books on the psychology of happiness and fulfillment including The Self-Love Experiment and Adventures for Your Soul, Joy Seeker, and Unshakable Inner Peace Oracle card deck, and the forthcoming book Return to You. She has a B.A. in journalism and communications from the University of Oregon. As an international life coach, speaker, and retreat leader, she helps people awaken and align with their true selves so they can live their highest potential.

She's been named top 100 Women to Watch in wellness by mindbodygreen, alongside Cameron Diaz, Gwyneth Paltrow, Kris Carr and Gabriel Bernstein, and was listed as of the freshest voices in mental health and wellness by Chicken Soup for The Women's Soul. She's been named one of Entrepreneurs Must-Follow Instagram Accounts for Inspiration and Top Facebook Accounts for Daily Motivation by Mind Body Green.

Her website has been names top 75 Personal development websites and top 100 self-help websites by the institute for the Psychology of Eating. She's an international life coach and author mentor, and a full time world traveler with a home base in Portland, Oregon with her best friend, her Golden Retriever Chance, who she flew to China to Rescue.