This Is The Reason You Should Make Eye Contact, Even On A Zoom Call

We know eye contact is generally a good practice: A strong gaze can lead to greater confidence, deeper intimacy, and it can help you become a better listener. But did you know eye contact actually has some neurological benefits? According to science journalist and author of Friendship Lydia Denworth, eye contact is paramount for healthy social connections. "When we make eye contact, it primes the social brain," she explains on the mindbodygreen podcast.

The elephant in the room, of course, is the pandemic—as social distancing remains in full effect, you might not meet anyone's gaze, save for a few trips to the grocery store or walk around the block.

"Essentially, [eye contact] activates the parts of the brain that are good at communicating and thinking about how another person is perceiving the world, a concept generally known as 'theory of mind,'" says Denworth. Specifically, research has found that a direct gaze engaged the medial prefrontal cortex (mPFC) and the temporoparietal junction (TPJ) regions in the brain1, both of which are involved in social information processing and theory of mind. 

To get your eye contact fix, Denworth says that a virtual gaze can work, too. "It seems that eye contact IRL looks one way in your brain, and on video chat it looks a little different, and then on the phone it looks different again," she says.

That said, virtual eye contact is better than none at all, especially if you're feeling lonely: According to a study on 1,400 older U.S. adults more likely to feel socially isolated, those who connected with others on video calls had a lower risk of developing depression4 compared to those who used only audio and instant messaging. And with respect to the nervous system, a recent study found that virtual eye contact had the same impact on the vagus nerve that an IRL gaze does.