The CEO of eHarmony Shares The Secret To A Perfect First Date

Still, online dating isn't perfect. And especially with the rise of dating apps, users often find that they're having a hard time making meaningful connections or turning their text exchanges into actual dates. Mbg chatted with eHarmony CEO Grant Langston, who shared some of the secrets he's learned from making online dating after 17 years in the business.

If you're someone who loves healthy food and early morning exercise sessions, "grabbing drinks" on every first date isn't exactly ideal. Which is fine, according to Langston, because in his experience the ideal first date is going for a walk. "Much of the time you can say, 'Hey, why don't we go for a walk and talk,'" he says. "Walk to get something to eat, but the walk is really what it's about. You're moving your body and you're not facing each other, which can be a little bit awkward at first. If the date happens to go that way, it can be romantic—you can take your date's hand on a walk. I wouldn't suggest someone go to SoulCycle with me on a first date, but a walk is a nice halfway point."

It's normal to get the jitters before a first date, but Langston cautions against preparing with a laundry list of questions. "The early stages of dating are supposed to be pleasant and light, so avoid hammering your date with tons of questions," he says. "But I don't think there's anything wrong with having more serious conversations. You don't have to talk about your life goals, but feel free to discuss politics or values. I suggest keeping it flirty and light for the most part, but every now and then delve into more serious questions. If you keep your ears open, you'll leave that first date knowing if that person is in the same stage of life as you and wants the same things you do."

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