Video Dating? How To Show Someone You're Interested Without Touch

The phrase online dating took on a whole new meaning as a result of the global pandemic. Instead of just meeting potential partners through a website or an app, many people are actually attending dates virtually. 

A survey conducted by the dating app Hinge, predicts that video dating is here to stay. Out of more than 5,000 participants, nearly half say they have been on a video date since the pandemic, and 52% will continue doing so after it's safe to meet IRL. 

Sure, video dating provides a safe, socially distanced way to meet new people. But when it's no longer possible to engage in physical touch (i.e., gently brushing your hand against your date's hand or rubbing the small of their back), the more subtle signs of attraction may be missed. 

Because the neck is a vulnerable part of the body, people often want to protect it. So when women, in particular, brush their hair to the side and expose their necks, it may be a sign of flirtation. 

Becoming a bit more expressive in your actions by raising your eyebrows, nodding, twirling your hair, fidgeting with your necklace, or gently rubbing your skin, are all potential signs of attraction among women and men.

Becoming curious about your date's passions is a good way to show your interest. Asking someone to tell you about themselves is pretty generic, Oud says. Observing a book, poster, or image in the background and asking to hear the story behind it is a bit more intriguing.

On the flip side, make sure your own background feels unique to you. (In other words, don't just sit against a blank wall.) This provides your date an opportunity to get to know you better, as well.