5 Ways To Attract Your Soul Mate
You have a soul mate. Someone you are meant to share a great love with. If you haven't found this person already, it's likely you're interested in meeting him or her. Good. You can. I'm going to tell you how.
By bringing awareness to what you want in a relationship, you are more likely to receive it. In that sense, you have control over your destiny in love.
Here are five steps you can take to prepare yourself for the greatest love of your life:
1. Believe in love.
Do you believe you can have a relationship that nourishes you, excites you, and keeps you coming back for more?
Do you believe that you have a soul mate?
I hope so, because believing in love is a crucial (and nonnegotiable) step in making it come true.
You can't have a relationship that you don't believe exists. Therefore, if you have any limiting beliefs about what is possible in love, you need to start challenging them ASAP.
If you find yourself thinking that an amazing relationship is not possible for you, tell yourself this: "No! This is a false belief. I know I am meant to have an amazing love."
As you practice distinguishing your limiting thoughts, you'll believe more and more that a great love is meant for you. And when this happens, anything is possible.
2. Heal old wounds.
It's necessary for you to get acquainted with your wounds if you're going to move beyond them. In getting to know your setbacks, you can take steps to heal this part of yourself, allowing a more fulfilling love to come to you.
How do you do this? First, recognize what you struggle with in relationships. This is could be an issue such as feeling abandoned, trapped, or not good enough. Once you know what the issue is, you heal it by taking care of yourself in the way that you've felt hurt by others.
Let me give you an example. If you've felt rejected in relationships, then you have to take steps to stop rejecting yourself. This means accepting your feelings, being kind to yourself, and making room for all parts of who you are.
As you love yourself in the way that you want to be loved, these wounds will heal. Once they do, you'll no longer need to play them out with other people in your life.
3. Practice self-love daily.
People are going to treat you the way you treat yourself. Because of this, the best way to attract a partner who adores you is by adoring yourself. Not just on the surface, but deep inside, too.
Take care of yourself in the best way possible. Love all parts of who you are, trying to accept each aspect of your being. Treat yourself to decadence and the good life. Make it a priority to feel good every day.
Honor yourself the way you want to be honored by a partner. This is one of the biggest secrets to finding a great love.
4. Enjoy life before your partner arrives.
If you are desiring a relationship that feels fantastic, then your life must feel fantastic before that person comes in.
Too often, people believe that the key to happiness is finding a partner, so they put happiness on hold in search of love. But this isn't how it works!
Your life is happening now. The more you enjoy it, the more attractive you become to others, and the more likely you will enjoy your next partner when he or she arrives.
5. Live from your soul.
If you want to find your true soul mate — a person who authentically compliments your soul — then you must live from your soul.
To me, living from your soul is pretty straightforward. It means being in contact with the deeper part of who you are, your authentic self, and making a commitment to live your life from that place within you.
We all have souls. It is the truest essence of who you are. When you live in a soulful manner, others who match your passion, enthusiasm, grace, and love will make their way to you. A soulful person is impossible to resist.
I'm so excited for you to embark on this journey of attracting the greatest love of your life. Remember that anything is possible if you believe it can be true.
Please leave a comment below telling us what you are going to do to attract your soul mate. I look forward to hearing from you!
Shelly Bullard, MFT, is a marriage and family therapist with a holistic and spiritual approach to relationships. She has worked with thousands of clients on improving their relationships with others and themselves, and she's also the instructor of the popular mindbodygreen courses How To Become The Most Attractive Version Of Yourself and How To Attract A Partner.