I'm A Sleep MD & A Night Owl: Here's What My Bedtime Routine Looks Like

I'm incredibly passionate about sleep health because of my own personal sleep journey as a natural night owl. I had a huge wake-up call when I suffered from a transient ischemic attack (TIA) at age 24. At the time, I was a full-time graduate student in addition to working two jobs (one being an overnight shift). The doctors concluded that the cause of my TIA was likely due to chronic sleep deprivation (I was sleeping two to three hours/night for months). This health scare heavily influenced my decision to become a behavioral sleep medicine specialist.

I, unfortunately, had to learn about the importance of getting enough sleep the hard way, and I was determined to solve my own sleep issues without having to resort to using medication. 

I wasn't able to fully embrace my natural sleep schedule or "chronotype" until I decided to start my own business. Thankfully, I now have the flexibility to choose my own work schedule, and thus, sleep in my natural sleep window. Promoting circadian alignment within my own body has been life-changing for me in many ways (including my own mental and physical health). My journey has shown me that both sleep quality and quantity are important, but even more important for me is the timing of when I sleep.

Morning hours: I'm someone who firmly believes that good sleep begins in the morning! I try to set the stage for sleep as soon as my day begins. Every morning, I take a walk outside with my dog, Fancy. I try to get at least 15 to 20 minutes of natural light without sunglasses to help regulate my circadian rhythm. I notice that when I keep my morning light consistent, I usually feel sleepy around the same time each night. 

8 p.m.: It's a Tuesday night after a full day of seeing clients. I finish up my notes from the day and reply to any pressing emails. I use the computer software f.lux to filter artificial blue light, which turns on after sunset. I power down my computer after my notes are complete.

8:30 p.m.: If I don't get a chance to exercise during the day (usually during my lunch break), I'll fit in a low-impact workout (like Pilates or Barre), walk on the treadmill, or focus on resistance training.

9:10 p.m.: I take a warm shower, brush my teeth, wash my face, and do my nightly skin care routine. 

9:30 p.m.: I finish my daily gratitude journal entry (the 5-minute journal is broken up into day vs. night practice), which allows me to reflect on any highlights from the day. Sometimes my journal entry includes a "brain dump" for a few minutes. It really helps me get things out of my head and onto paper before I start to wind down. 

9:45 p.m.: I tidy up my space and clean the dishes after dinner while listening to music or a podcast. 

10 p.m.: I get cozy on the couch and turn on a good TV show. I put on my favorite pair of blue-light-blocking glasses.

11:45 p.m.: I practice some gentle stretches and restorative yoga poses. I focus on slowing down my breathing. Depending on how alert I feel, I may practice guided meditation. 

12:15 a.m.: I take my dog out for her last walk.

12:30 a.m.: I transition to reading a book on the couch. Right now, I'm rereading The Four Agreements. I've read it a million times, but I always take away something new each time. It's a book that's not too mentally stimulating for me before bed. 

1:40 a.m.: My eyes get heavy around this time. The wave of sleep is on its way. I try to only get into bed when I feel sleepy. 

1:50 a.m.: I turn on my white noise machine and get under the covers.