Effy Blue

Effy Blue

Effy Blue is a relationship expert specializing in non-monogamy and other alternative structures. As the founder of Relationship by Design, Effy's coaching philosophy abandons the one-size-fits-all relationship paradigm prescribed by society and advocates instead that relationships be consciously designed to support the needs of those in it.

In addition to working one-on-one with clients, Effy runs a community organization focused on challenging the status quo in love, sex, and relationships. Curious Fox helps people learn, connect, and thrive through events, online community, and the Curious Fox Podcast. Effy is also the creator of Play Party Etiquette, a book and workshop designed to demystify the exciting world of sex parties. Covering everything from what to wear to how to express boundaries and desires, Play Party Etiquette is a practical guide for all those interested in exploring sex parties.