22 Articles by Kimanzi Constable

Kimanzi Constable

4 Happiness Myths That Make It Impossible To Actually BE Happy

My happiness isn't an accident. It took a lot of work to get here, and it takes work to maintain it.

Kimanzi Constable
February 13 2016

6 Struggles I Had To Give Up To Be Happy

Every time I think about my childhood, I get angry. A time that should have been filled with happy moments spent learning and growing was ruined by...

Kimanzi Constable
January 13 2016

12 Signs You're Out Of The Honeymoon Phase (And How To Get Back There)

Young love — no matter how old you are — is a beautiful feeling. You feel something you can’t explain, and you want more of it. You don't even see the...

Kimanzi Constable
December 20 2015

After 16 Years With My Wife, It Still Feels Like The Honeymoon Phase. Here's Why

I met the love of my life at 17, while both of us were working at Burger King. She hated me at first — thought I was an arrogant know-it-all. Over the...

Kimanzi Constable
November 15 2015

How To Fall Back In Love With Yourself (And Why It’s Important!)

You are a shining star with the power to bring light to someone’s darkness.

Kimanzi Constable
October 5 2015

I Lost 170 Pounds After Ditching These 5 Beliefs

When I started my weight-loss journey, these five self-limiting beliefs tried to hold me back from my goals.

Kimanzi Constable
August 25 2015

7 Choices That Make Love Last

Seven choices you that will help your love withstand the rough times.

Kimanzi Constable
August 12 2015

3 Lessons I Learned While I Was Separated From My Wife

We did end up reconciling at the end of one year, but only after I learned these lessons.

Kimanzi Constable
July 20 2015

I Was Obese, Broke & Separated From My Wife. Then I Changed My Life

Five specific realizations that helped me get my life back on track, stop surviving, and start really living.

Kimanzi Constable
June 22 2015

What My Grandfather Taught Me About How To Live, Love & Matter

Life is short, and we can't get time back. Each of us only gets one life. Will you regret how you're living life right now?

Kimanzi Constable
April 20 2015

What I Wish I'd Learned About Forgiveness (Before It Was Too Late)

One of the hardest, and most important, lessons I've learned in my life is forgiveness, and I learned it after it was too late.

Kimanzi Constable
April 8 2015

I Didn't Have Money Or A Job, But I Moved To Hawaii Anyway

It took three years, and more determination than I thought was possible, but I radically changed my life.

Kimanzi Constable
March 19 2015

How I Finally Found The Courage To Quit My Job & Move To Hawaii

Seeing the greenery everywhere, smelling the fresh ocean breezes, and getting fresh coconut on the side of the road was surreal.

Kimanzi Constable
March 3 2015

9 Mantras For A Lasting Marriage

My wife and I have gone to the edge and back in this marriage, and I have learned some valuable lessons along the way about how to make a marriage...

Kimanzi Constable
January 8 2015

How To Create Real Freedom In Your Life

In April of 2012, my father died unexpectedly at the age of 54. Upon hearing the news, I felt almost numb. He and my mother had divorced when I was...

Kimanzi Constable
November 25 2014

5 Signs You’re Living Life On Autopilot

Going through the motions day in and day out is not a great way to live the one life you're given.

Kimanzi Constable
October 27 2014

9 Things Nobody Told Me About Getting Married Young

My wife and I are celebrating 16 years of marriage this December. Here's what I wish we'd known back then.

Kimanzi Constable
September 28 2014