New Research Says Opposites Don't Actually Attract

For this study, researchers from the University of Colorado–Boulder wanted to assess if it's actually true that opposites attract. To do so, they conducted their own original data analysis, as well as a meta-analysis of existing research on couples and opposing traits.

The research involved looking at over 130 different traits, millions of couples, and data collected over the past 100+ years.

Their review of existing research included just under 200 studies, the oldest of which being from 1903, and included millions of pairs, including engaged couples, married couples, domestic partners, and more.

For their original research, they used the UK Biobank to look at over 130 traits across 79,074 couples in the UK.

Based on their findings, it would appear that opposites don't actually attract. Namely, when it came to the traits they studied, couples typically had around 82% to 89% traits in common, with only 3% of traits differing on average.

Namely, things like political views, religious beliefs, education level, and intelligence, showed the highest correlations in similarity, as well as substance use (or abstaining from substance use). The most common similarity of them all was being born in the same year.

Traits like height and weight, personality, and medical conditions showed less significant correlations, but the study authors note a slight tendency toward similarity was still present there.

And if you're curious about the traits that showed little correlation at all, extroverts and introverts seem to get along just fine, as well as couples where one person is an "early bird" while the other is a "night owl." "Tendency to worry" also saw a negative correlation, suggesting it's not uncommon for one person in a couple to be more worrisome than the other.