89 Articles by Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

Don't Get Married Until You Can Answer These 40 Questions

If you’re single and you want a partner, you’ve probably spent a lot of time thinking about what you want — mentally, emotionally, spiritually. Are...

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
January 11 2016

Craving Emotional Intimacy In Your Life? Here's How To Get It

Here are six ways to increase the emotional intimacy in your most significant relationships.

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
December 30 2015

3 Reasons Your Date Ghosted You (And Why You Shouldn't Take It Personally)

How often have you met someone, felt a real connection with them, had a couple of great dates, and then never heard from them again? It's happened to...

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
December 16 2015

4 Things People Who Love Themselves DON'T Do (And 7 Things They Always Do)

When you love yourself, your achievements are an expression of your being rather than a definition of your being.

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
November 26 2015

Here's What True Love Is (And What It Isn't)

Love is that which supports the highest good in you and in others. Love recognizes that whatever truly serves one serves all, and what does not serve...

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
November 4 2015

The 4 Keys Of Successful Relationships: What I've Learned From 47 Years Of Counseling Couples

From my own life experiences, and the experiences of the thousands of couples I've counseled over the last 47 years, I've discovered four major keys...

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
October 11 2015

Here's What Happens When You Start Being Nice To Yourself

Were you brought up to believe that taking care of yourself is selfish? Most of us were, or at least internalized that belief somewhere along our...

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
May 27 2015

7 Things To Do When You Feel Blamed & Shamed

What do you usually do when someone blames and shames you?

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
April 1 2015

How To Rebuild Relationship Trust (And Trust In Yourself) Again

Look within yourself and your relationship to start the rebuilding process.

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
February 19 2015

How To Express Your Authentic Truth In Relationships

"I feel like I'm always walking on eggshells with Rosalyn," my client Sean admitted during our recent Skype session. "I hate that we can't talk about...

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
February 3 2015

I Feel Awesome At 75. Here's How I Do It

When I was younger, I made the decision to think about how I wanted to live in my older years. Today, at 75, I'm living the way I hoped I would: a...

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
December 7 2014

The Biggest Cause Of Relationship Failure

What if there was ONE major cause of relationship failure? And what if there were something you could do to create a truly loving relationship?

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
November 22 2014

3 Non-Negotiable Reasons To Leave Your Partner

Have you ever struggled with the question of when it's time to leave a relationship?

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
November 10 2014

The ONLY Ways To Deal With Relationship Conflicts In A Healthy Way

Conflict! The very word often brings up fear. Yet all relationships have it. It's not the conflicts themselves that cause problems in relationships —...

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
October 19 2014

9 Ways To Radically Improve Your Relationship

All relationships have a system. Some systems work well and some are dysfunctional.

Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
October 9 2014