197 Articles by Kelly Gonsalves
Kelly Gonsalves
This Common Mistake Can Cause Tension In Couples With Mismatched Libidos
Don't let nonsexual touch disappear with sex.
Why So Many People Are Interested In Ethical Non-Monogamy These Days
Ethical non-monogamy is all about consent, communication, and individuality.
Your Dreams May Be A Clue To How COVID Stress Is Affecting You
Have you been remembering more dreams lately?
What It Really Means To Have Physical Touch As Your Love Language
It goes way beyond just sex.
What "The Bachelorette" Got Wrong About The Love Languages
The point isn't to use all five of the love languages.
Is Dating Becoming More Authentic Thanks To COVID?
People are more aware of what they want these days.
How Growing Up With Unavailable Parents May Affect Your Sex Life Today
If your parents didn't respond to your emotional needs growing up, read this.
1 In 4 People Had Sex With A Roommate During Lockdown: An Anthropologist On Why
"Situational sex" apparently spiked this year.
14 Big Questions To Ask Before Getting Married, From Marriage Therapists
No. 2: How do you want to raise your kids?
Getting Enough Sleep Is Seen As Less Masculine, Study Finds
Apparently sleep is "not manly."
How Long Does Sex Last For Most People? (It's Shorter Than You Think)
Here's the exact number of minutes people spend having sex.
Is Squirting Real — Or Is It Pee? Here's What Research Actually Says
Why can't anybody agree on what squirting is?
13 Reasons A Married Woman May Not Be Interested In Sex With Her Spouse
Yes, it might be because you're not getting her off in bed.
Why Chore Lists Don't Help Couples Share Housework Equally
The "divide and conquer" strategy might not be working when it comes to chores.
Here's How Often Married Couples Have Sex, In Case You're Curious
Once a week? Once a month?
4 Contextual Cues That Turn Women On, According To Sex Researchers
For some people, sexual desire happens only in certain contexts.
How This Wild 2020 Has Changed Our Social Media Habits
The events of this year are making us rethink our screen time.
What Makes Us Feel Lonely Depends On Our Age, Research Finds
For some people, seeing only family is the same as being alone.
Can A Marriage Survive Without Intimacy? Marriage Therapists Weigh In
Marriages do need intimacy to survive, though there are different types of intimacy.
How To Give Your Partner A Tantric Massage, From The Experts
Explore new forms of touch together.