Whether it was an early crush, a one-night stand with a stranger, or an illicit affair, the fuel that feeds our most animal passions is generated by the sexiest organ in our bodies—our brains. Most sexual fantasies are variations on the basic themes of submission, domination, and rule-breaking. Many fantasies can even be disconcerting, making you wonder why on earth you'd find something so bizarre arousing. So, more often than not, we try to ignore the fantasies that make us uncomfortable. And it is to our detriment.
You see, tapping into this erotic fuel will take your sex life to whole new levels of creativity and excitement. When I first began allowing the obscene imagery and storylines that emerged from my previously pent-up fantasies to flow, it scared me at least as much as it excited me. I remember how I would be swept away by these fantastical sexual stories, with no idea where they could have come from.
And I remember ruminating for days about whether these were some bizarre recovered memories coming back to me. But after learning more about the natural process of fantasy evolution within us, I have not only been able to relax into what comes, but I've come to revel in amazement about the power of my own erotic energy.