Yes, you love each other until the end of time. It is easy to get carried away with the romance in the beginning, but at some point, you must get realistic. That means sitting down to talk about the books. It's not one person’s responsibility in the relationship to know where the money is going. It is a sensitive topic, and one many couples don’t touch until years into a marriage when they have no other choice.
Approach it with an open mind. Many people don’t even know they have serious financial problems until they sit down to sort through it. Follow this advice to avoid any arguments because of monetary problems: