Did you know that most self-help programs following the standard success blueprint have a 97 percent failure rate? The typical personal improvement mantra of “tapping into your willpower and using the power of positive thinking” is actually often a recipe for failure. In The Love Code: The Secret Principle to Achieving Success in Life, Love, and Happiness, my goal is to provide you, the reader, with a self-help program that will help you achieve the life you want and the success you deserve.
Science has proven that stress is the primary source of many physical, spiritual, emotional, and even circumstantial issues. I believe that understanding how love works in our bodies is the key to combating stress. By harnessing love’s power and learning to live in the present, you can define your life goals and live mindfully in a state of peace.
The moment you begin acting in love rather than from fear—what I call the “Transformational Aha”—is the first step to changing your external circumstances by living in an internal state of peace.
The Transformational Aha is akin to a near-death experience, in which the person experiencing it is forever changed in ways that likely never could have happened through willpower alone. The person may have even tried to make such changes before unsuccessfully. But the heart and mind control the body. When the programming changes, everything can change, and often on a dime. And the cases where this has occurred are usually quite easy to spot.
We can’t control whether or not we receive this experience, but we can increase the opportunities we have to receive this incredible gift. All we have to do is think and meditate on this idea—the love code—and be open to the possibility of receiving the experience.
Specifically, I’d like you to meditate over each of the following points, one at a time and in this order: