When you meet a new guy, it’s tempting to think you need to actively do something to show him why he should be attracted to you and interested in you. You might think you need to show him what a great cook you are by making him a meal or how good you are at problem-solving.
While every relationship needs a balance of give and take, these efforts on your part are not what make a man attracted to you. The truth is that irresistible women are irresistible because of their attitudes. It’s not about effort.
An attitude is how you tell people about yourself without saying a single word. Your emotions, which are reflected in your body language and tone of voice, all communicate your attitude.
If you take on (or already have) any of these attitudes, you’ll have more suitors than you can handle: