But first, let me take a minute to say, if you’re thinking this is ridiculously outdated or even offensive, hear me out. I got into the business of helping women find lasting love because I was tired of seeing my female friends pick the wrong guys over and over again — and get unnecessarily hurt in the process.
I know what guys think — whether they’re just looking for a good time, or they want a rock-solid relationship with an equal. And while these tips are written for heterosexual women, they apply to anyone who wants to create an extraordinary relationship.
“Cool girl” is guy-speak for the kind of woman who is attractive to men in a way that even they don’t usually understand and can’t even begin to explain. But I will.
You see, “cool girl” is code for a woman who embodies certain qualities that, together, trigger attraction in an emotionally mature man at a deep level. Let me explain a bit more about what I mean and what he’s thinking.
So, back to the topic at hand…
If you’ve ever heard a guy talk about a woman being a “cool girl,” he was probably smiling at the time.
A “cool girl” has a certain positive emotional energy that men can relate to. She might not be the most objectively physically attractive woman in the room, but there’s just something about her that men find irresistible.
What is that thing? Well, it’s actually a few things: