9 Ways To Harness The Sexual Energy Of Tonight's Full Moon
Tonight we dive into the depths with the Scorpio full moon, which cranks up the intensity and attunes us to our souls. Have you concealed a few layers of your persona? Overlooked some nuances or key details? The full moon will illuminate those now.
Scorpio is the zodiac’s shaman and the ruler of extremes. It can draw out both our darkest shadows and our most enlightened selves. Ready for a major shift in your life? Turn it over to la luna for some deep processing and healing.
This year, the Scorpio full moon will form an exact square (90-degree angle of tension) to outspoken Jupiter in showy Leo. Talk about polar opposites! While Scorpio is discreet and mysterious, this counterforce lets it all hang out.
Under the spotlight of a full moon, we can expect a lot of interesting intel and colorful confessions to come to light.
The first full moon of May is sometimes called the Full Flower Moon, or Mother's Moon, marking a time of increasing fertility with warming temperatures for new life to bloom. Since Scorpio rules the reproductive system, consider yourself notified!
Legend has it that there are three “phases” of Scorpionic energy. There’s the low-vibe, ground-dwelling scorpion who stings every threatening passerby; then the observant eagle taking in its sweeping view from high overhead. The most transcendent Scorpio form is the phoenix, which rises from the ashes of destruction and shows us the remaining signs of life.
In the wake of Nepal’s devastating earthquake and Baltimore’s uprising, the need for Scorpio’s healing alchemy has never been greater.
Here are 9 ways to channel this power-packed full flower moon in Scorpio to your advantage:
1. Play a game of "True Confessions."
Open closet, exit skeletons. With the illuminating full moon beaming into Scorpio, ruler of secrets, la luna reveals all of the “secrets” we’ve been keeping, including hiding from your own light.
If you have a lesser-known talent, bring it out of hiding. If you’ve been too frightened to explore a part of yourself, go THERE. No coincidence that Scorpio Bruce Jenner revealed his gender transformation plans right before this full moon in his sign (now, will we hear from his Scorpio ex-wife Kris after this full moon?).
Regenerative Scorpio is a deeply creative water sign, with a gift for making everything old seem fresh again. Tap into your inner alchemist: Reinvent something old into a striking new idea, like our Scorpio sister Chloe Sevigny has done with vintage finds for decades. Don’t be afraid to stand out by boldly baring your most intimate truth … or by wearing it on your sleeve.
2. Get intimate.
Intimacy is soul-fusing Scorpio’s domain. It rules the eighth house of fusion, that energetic space where we merge our energy and resources with another person’s.
This may sound romantic, but it can actually be rather intimidating. Joint finances, cohabitation, allowing someone to see your vulnerability, learning to trust — these Scorpionic acts may not be easy or comfortable, but they’re what true intimacy requires.
Scorpio is also known as the sex sign, and rightly so — anyone who’s been with a Scorpio will attest to this sign’s sexual prowess. The Scorpio full moon is known for delivering pregnancies, marriages, divorces, or just the best romp of your life. Rawr!
3. Choose the target of your control freak-ing.
Scorpio is the sign of power and control. These traits get a bad rap, but truth is, to be a mortal IS to be a control freak of sorts. So rather than try to change this utterly human trait, decide what’s worthy of getting all worked up about instead.
Find a pursuit to obsess over, something that makes the world a better place. Maybe it's helping to organize an event that will raise money for a children’s charity, or taking on a leadership position that lets you decide how to use your community’s natural resources more sustainably. Let your (control) freak flag fly!
4. Don’t hate, reincarnate.
Scorpio is the ruler of psychic and mystical phenomenon, including reincarnation. If you haven’t read Brian Weiss’ Many Lives, Many Masters, it will change how you think about death and the soul — in a good way — forever.
Try a past-life regression, or read up on your North and South Nodes to learn more about your own past-life karma and future destiny, by the stars. For instance, watch this seven-year-old girl crooning Frank Sinatra and just tell us she hasn’t been here before.
5. Harness your sexual power.
Shimmy those hips, rock that pelvis and awaken your second (Sacral) chakra (the ruler of money AND sex, both Scorpio terrain).
Try a burlesque class, pole dancing or invent your own sexy striptease. Perform it for yourself in the mirror, because YOUR turn-on is the most important one. Check out “sacred seduction” expert Kitty Cavalier’s workshops or "conscious coupling" sexpert, Kim Anami, for some steamy relationship tips.
6. Get in touch with your soul for a minute.
We live in a world of high performance, achievement, competition. But everyone could use a little support from the spiritual realm. Tuck away that superhero cape and ask spirit guides, guardian angels, God, and the universe, whatever you want to call it … for a sign.
Close your eyes and be where you are. Whether you do a moving meditation, a guided meditation (we love the ones be Terri Cole), or take a few moments of silence, this practice has been shown to boost brain health — and put you in that serene state of flow that Scorpio loves.
7. Release yourself from a financial obligation.
A huge segment of the population (including us) deals with debt. After all, we live in a culture of accumulation and instant gratification. It’s easy enough to get there. But debt can drain our energy and steal from our souls if not managed. Scorpio rules the zodiac’s eighth house of wealth and joint finances. It’s the money we borrow, inherit and owe.
Today, pay a debt, even if it’s just a small piece of one. Make a plan for how you’ll pay any outstanding debts off, even if it’s a little monthly amount. The energy and intention are what sets the momentum forward. Feeling bold? Cut up a credit card. Are you debt-free and financially solvent? Make a donation. Do it even if you’re not. Scorpio is a karmic sign, so whatever goes around comes around, especially in the realm of finances.
8. Make a foggy area crystal clear.
The devil is in the details, and Scorpio’s laser vision never misses a thing. Where in your life have you left things a little fuzzy around the edges? It could be affecting you more than you realize.
Take tangible actions: make a call, send an email, apologize to someone, tell the truth, whatever. Just DO it. Precision is the Scorpio aim.
9. Channel the phoenix and rise, baby.
Scorpio rules power, control and transformation — it’s the mythic phoenix that rises from the ashes of destruction. What in your life needs to symbolically “die” so that something new can be born? Let it go — or at least, release your grip — and allow the Scorpio full moon to transmute it.
Having trouble releasing? You might download The God Box mobile app, which allows you to write wishes and release stresses, which you type into your smartphone and release with the touch of a “Let It Go” button.